When I was a kid and it was time for my birthday I remember my mom asking me if I wanted to invite all of my friends over for a party. The thought of everyone coming over and giving me presents and making the whole day all about made me uncomfortable.

As an adult I’m still the same way. I’ve been to parties for friends and I love blessing people with gifts, but when it comes time for my birthday I’d rather celebrate quietly with my wife and and maybe close family.